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no story of ar-Beng to read here la..juz a simple message for him..Hope your life is filled with sugar and spice and everything nice! U can count on us for a Band-aid...
Love is the driving force to some people people to do wonderful things in their lives, sometimes it is the driving force also that made people do crazy things. We'll that is love, well perhaps when a person is heart broken, how a person would move on and be a the person he used to be? That is really something easy to say for some people when you ask for advice, but the truth is most people who are heart broken could hardly stand and be a man again.
When you talk your concerns to someone you trusted you felt that you have a protector willing to understand you and give you comfort. And when you talk about the reasons of your breakup you have the enormous confident and strenght to face it, but when the good times are being discussed there...your tears will start to fall. Well many would say that ACCEPTANCE is the solution, ok? let's take it but for how long can you accept the fact that the person you love is no longer at your side and here you are a zombie who can't do anything to be happy again.
Some simple tips for you on how to handle the situation you are experiencing:
1. Love is the reason why you cant forget the person and often times makes you cry, you have to let it go. How? face the fact that he or she left you because you two are not compatible.
1. Love is the reason why you cant forget the person and often times makes you cry, you have to let it go. How? face the fact that he or she left you because you two are not compatible.
2. Think of the things that you hated from her, starting from the way she or he did things to you and the way she or he acts towards to you and to the society.
3. Frequent drinking of Liquor or taking drugs would not solve the problem, it only removes your depression and frustration for a while then it will come back the time you're awake.
4. Try to avoid looking at the things she or he gave to you, like pictures and among others.
5. Get your phone and call your friends and mingle with them, ask for their advice and solution, it is better if there are many solutions because instead of the pain, you feel joy and comfort from them.
6. Make your self busy and focus on more important things in your life at present like work, business and among others that is fruitful. It can help you overcome the situation.
7. Think of the situation as a destiny not a tragedy. Think that there are better beings out there than your x and you are lucky because he or she has set you free before things get worst.
8. Erase her or him in your memory, you can't think of your crush and start looking for her or his number.
9. Sleep and Sleep...its peaceful
10. Well I am sure those nine tips will surely remove that love thing and enable you to move on.................But how about giving her or him a call and lay down all your hatred, your pride, forget about the troubles and just say SORRY, and I sure you it will make you happy again.
In ar-Beng's case, ....no 11. Get laid asap! ><
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